Coming up with Halloween costumes for twins and multiples can be a lot of fun. There are so many possibilities, because so many great things come in twos. Whether you purchase a costume, or make it yourself, the possibilities are endless. It is also fun to do a whole family theme, where mom & dad get in on the action, too. Check out some of these great ideas to get you started, then let your imagination soar!
Classic Twin Costume Themes:
Thing 1 & Thing 2
2 peas in a pod
Yin & Yang
Candy (M&M’s, Hershey’s Kisses…)
Monkey See Monkey Do
Hear no evil, See no evil, Speak no evil Monkeys
Doublemint twins
Double-Bubble gum
Mr. And Mrs. Potatohead
Raggedy Ann and Andy
Sun & Moon (& Stars)
Playing Cards
Grapes
Crayons
Angel & Devil
Pair of Dice
Salt & Pepper
Samurai & Ninja
Dalmatian & Fire Fighter
Cheerleader & Football Player
Ketchup & Mustard
Hamburger & Fries
Milk & Cookies
Peanuts (Snoopy, Woodstock, Charlie Brown…)
Farm Animals & Farmer (cows, horses, pigs…)
Cowboy & Pony
Puppy & Kitten
Butterfly & Caterpillar
Big Cat & Tamer (Lion, Tiger…)
Cat & Mouse
Bride & Groom
Mr. & Mrs. Potato Head
Bumble Bees (Honey Pot, Lady bug, Flower)
Good Witch / Bad Witch
Frankenstein & Bride
Knight & Princess
Tooth & Tooth Fairy
Mummy & Pharaoh
Spider & Buy
Shark & Fish
Frog & Bug
Lemon & Lime
Anthony & Cleopatra
Mac & Cheese
Tarzan & Jane
Cartoon Costume themes:
Tom & Jerry
Scooby-Doo (Scooby, Shaggy, Velma…)
Pokemon (Ash, Brocke, Pikachu…)
The Simpsons (Bart & Lisa, Marge & Homer…)
The Flintstones (Pebble & Bam-Bam…)
Curious George (George & Man in Yellow Hat)
Bob the Builder (Bob, Wendy…)
Arthur (Arthur, DW, Baxter…)
Dora the Explorer (Dora, Boots, Swiper, Diego, Jaguar…)
SpongeBob Squarepants
Backyardigans (Tyrone, Pablo, Uniqua…)
Powerpuff Girls (Blossom, Bubbles, & Buttercup)
Mario & Luigi
Handy Manny (Kelly)
Super Heroes (Superman, Batman, Iron Man, The Hulk, Captain America, Wonder Woman…)
TV Show Costume Themes:
Barney & Baby Bop
Sesame Street (Elmo and Zoe; Bert & Ernie, Big Bird, Cookie Monster…)
Blues Clues (Blue and Magenta…)
Happy Days (Richie & Fonzie)
Movie Costume Themes:
Wizard of OZ (Dorothy, Scarecrow, Tin Man, Lion …)
Batman & Robin
Batman & Catwoman
superman & Wonder Woman
Toy Story (Woody, Buzz, Jessie…)
Shrek (Shrek, Fiona, Donkey…)
Superman and Lois Lane
Star Wars (Darth Vader, Luke, Princess Leia, Jar-Jar, Yoda, R2D2, Chewbacca…)
Harry Potter (Harry, Hermione, Hedwig, Dumbledore…)
Fairy Tales Costume Themes:
Goldilocks & the 3 bears (a great quads costume or mom can be Goldilocks)
Little Red Riding Hood and the Wolf
Peter Pan and Tinkerbell
Alice in Wonderland (Alice, the rabbit, the Cheshire Cat…)
The Cat in the Hat (Thing1 & Thing2, The Cat…)
Jack & Jill
The 3 Little Pigs & The Big Bad Wolf
Little Bo Peep (and sheep)
Peter Pan (Peter, Wendy, Tinkerbell, Captain Hook…)
3 Blind Mice
Disney Costume Themes:
Beauty & The Beast (Belle, The Beast, Teacups…)
The Little Mermaid (Ariel, Founder, Sebastian…)
Snow White (Snow White, Dwarfs, Evil Queen…)
Any Disney Princess & supporting characters
Mickey Mouse and Minnie Mouse
Donald Duck and Daisy Duck
Lady and the Tramp
Hannah Montana and Jackson or Oliver
Nemo and Dora (or…)
Phineas and Ferb (Perry, Dr. Doofenshmirtz)
Disney Princesses (Ariel, Snow White, Cinderella, Bella…)
Disney Fairies
Winnie the Pooh (Winnie, Piglet, Tigger, Eeyore…)
The Lion King (Simba, Nala, Timon, Pumbaa…)
Hope these lists get you started thinking about the endless possibilities for costumes for twins and multiples. Halloween is all about imagination. And, making costumes ”from scratch” is a lot of fun — and often creates the best memories. Tell us what we’ve missed. What creative costumes have you come up with for your twins?
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Absolutely! However, it doesn’t work out for everyone, so it is best to keep an open mind about how feeding will go.
“Tandem Feeding” just means feeding both at the same time, this could be breastfeeding, bottle feeding, or a combination of those. But in most articles tandem feeding refers to breastfeeding more than one baby at a time.
Sometimes one infant will have feeding issues or other medical problems that prevent that baby from breastfeeding, while the other baby may breastfeed like a champ.
Sometimes moms will feed one baby and then immediately follow with the other because a helper is not available or for some reason tandem feeding doesn’t work out.
Some families choose to breastfeed one baby while another adult bottle feeds the other baby — then with the next feeding, the babies are swapped. This gives both caregivers an additional opportunity to bond individually with each baby.
I’m having trouble getting the hang of tandem breast feeding – is it worth it?
As we said earlier, it doesn’t work out for everyone, so it is best to keep an open mind about how feeding will go. Don’t beat yourself up if it doesn’t work out for you. There are many circumstances that may prevent you from tandem breastfeeding. Only you can decide if it is worth it to continue attempting to tandem breast feed. Some of the benefits include:
Tandem breast feeding can cut the feeding time almost in half
Some moms report an added closeness between the babies as a result of tandem breastfeeding
Breastfeeding saves on bottle washing and prep time
Tips for tandem breast feeding
Practice with a lactation consultant present
Until you get the hang of it, don’t attempt to tandem feed if you’re alone
Use a helper to get the babies positioned and to help with burping
Try to practice at least once a day
Use pillows! Lots of them
Use a double nursing pillow for resting the babies (these are horseshoe shaped, stiff foam pillows that will support two babies at the right level and position for breast feeding). Many twins moms recommend the EZ2Nurse pillow.
You may need several pillows under the sides of the double nursing pillow
Use a pillow behind mom’s back for support
Try out different tandem breast feeding holds to determine which works best for you.
One way that works well is the “football” or “clutch” hold. One baby tucked under your arm on each side with their legs sticking out towards the back of the chair.
Another tandem position is to place the babies in front of you with their legs criss-crossing over each other.
If one baby is better at breastfeeding than the other, get that baby settled first before adding the second baby
If I don’t tandem feed, how can I deal with two hungry, howling babies at the same time?
The trick here is to cue in to early hunger signals and begin feeding the hungrier baby before either baby gets too hungry. These early cues include:
Finger or fist sucking
Nuzzling into your arm or chest
Opening and closing of the mouth or smacking
Moving the head back and forth
If feeding is delayed so that the waiting baby is overly hungry, you can attempt delay or distraction techniques. These include:
Use of pacifier
Placing the baby in a bouncer or vibrator chair
Toys
Offering your (clean) finger for the baby to suck
Twin Tandem Breast Feeding Best Practices
Keep track (chart) your babies’ feeds (time started, which breast L/R)
Switch your babies’ assigned breast with each feed
Practice tandem feeding daily for the first several weeks before making any decisions to discontinue tandem feeds
Watch for early hunger signs and begin feedings early
Drink 8 – 12 glasses of water daily (too much or too little can impact milk supply).
Having twins and multiples means more of everything — including morning sickness. The majority of all pregnancies experience nausea to some degree, and that increases with each additional baby in the mix. The severity of the nausea is also increased with each additional baby.
Pregnancy nausea is usually attributed to the increased hormones during pregnancy. Many of these hormones are produced by the placenta. So, when there is more than one placenta (as in many twin pregnancies), more of these pregnancy hormones are produced — causing increased nausea.
“Morning Sickness” can occur at any time of day, but is often associated with the morning because it can be more strongly felt with an empty stomach. In addition, a twin pregnancy can put more pressure on the tummy — increasing nausea.
One little trick to help with this is to keep crackers or a banana at your bedside. When you get up in the middle of the night to use the bathroom (as pregnant twin mamas often must do), eat a little bit. It is healthy for you and your babies — and will help reduce the morning nausea.
Increased nausea is one of many signs that you might be having twins.
Do:
Eat small meals often
Take a nap and get plenty of rest
Learn your particular triggers and avoid those foods and smells that increase your nausea
Dress in layers so you can peel off if you get too hot (feeling too warm increases nausea)
Drink lemonade, eat watermelon, or something with ginger — as these help reduce nausea
Exercise (but talk to your doctor about the amount and type that would be appropriate for your twin pregnancy)
Eat salty potato chips
Consult with your doctor — keep your doctor informed of your level of nausea (too much naseua can indicate a problem)
Eat healthy with lots of protein
Don’t:
Do not drink a large amount of fluids with meals
Do not lie down after eating
Do not skip meals
Do not cook or eat spicy food
While morning sickness in a twin pregnancy can be more severe and can last longer into the pregnancy, it is survivable — as is just about everything twin related. Take it one day at a time, and your little sweethearts will be here before you know it.
Did you or do you have morning sickness with your twin pregnancy? Any tips for coping?
The age at which twins, triplets or more begin to notice each other and interact varies widely. A lot depends on how closely you keep your twins in proximity to each other. Do they share the same crib? Do you place them side by side on the floor for tummy time? or under an arch for overhead play time? These factors all can influence their interactions.
Some twins are aware of their twin from day one. Parents of multiples have reported their twins crying more when separated from their sibling.
Hospitals in Europe have long practiced co-bedding of multiples because of the reported benefits for the infants, which include improved weight gain and growth as well as a reduction in physiological stress. Hospitals in the United States have begun to follow suit. However, hospitals in both countries are rethinking their policies.
More recent reports indicate that co-bedding can increase the chances of SIDS, although some sources attribute the higher incidence of SIDS among multiples to be primarily related to low birth weight and not necessarily co-sleeping. A commentary published in the journal “Pediatrics” on November 30, 2007 titled, “Cobedding Twins and Higher-Order Multiples in a Hospital Setting” concludes:
“Although cobedding multiples has become more widely practiced in hospitals in the United States, neither the safety nor the benefit of this practice has been documented in the published literature. Parents should be encouraged to follow established safe-sleep practices for infants at home.”
Even if you decide against co-bedding your twins, you can encourage their interactions by keeping the cribs close to each other in the bedroom. During activity time, you can encourage interactions by placing your twins together on the floor, side-by-side in the stroller, and holding them face to face with another adult.
No matter what age your twins begin responding to each other, it will happen sooner or later. It would be pretty tough to grow up as a twin without forming a strong twin relationship that involves playing, fighting, and emotional support. As parents of twins, we long for the day when we see the twin bond developing — and some of us must be more patient than others.
Twitter is a great place to connect in (nearly) realtime with other parents of twins. And, in an attempt to do that, nearly every twin parent tries out a search on the term “twins” at some point or another. But, searching on the hashtag #twins will return about 99% of the tweets related to that fabulous Major League Baseball team, The Minnesota Twins.
#TwinTuesday
This can be frustrating for twin parents that are trying to form a community. So, along came TwinHappy.com. Jen at TwinHappy created TwinTuesday, a fun day for parents of twins to connect on Twitter — usually centered around a Question of the Week. Jen usually has a weekly giveaway as well as a “shout out” to all the parents on her TwinTuesday roll call. Kudos to @TwinHappyJen. It’s super easy to participate — just search on the hashtag #twintuesday to see the conversations, and tweet along – including the #twintuesday hashtag in your tweets.
What is a hashtag?
According to Ben Parr at Mashable, “One of the most complex features of Twitter for new users to understand is the hashtag, a topic with a hash symbol (“#”) at the start to identify it. Twitter hashtags like #followfridayhelp spread information on Twitter while also helping to organize it.” Read more about hashtags in Mashable’s article, ”HOW TO: Get the Most Out of Twitter #Hashtags”.
Some existing hashtags on Twitter have HUGE followings. For example, some of the political hastags (like #TCOT – top conservatives on twitter) are often trending (that is, a lot of people on twitter are currently talking about it).
How do parents of twins connect the rest of the week?
Some parents of twins and multiples have attempted to use the hashtag #multiples. That works fine, but it is a bit long. When you’re working with just 140 characters, it is desirable to have a short hashtag — to conserve your precious tweet characters for your real content. I’ve seen some amazingly long hashtags, and it’s just crazy. Well, I guess that’s the point. People often come up with some crazy hashtag and get all their friends to tweet with it in an attempt to make it “trend”.
#TPH – Twin Parenthood
Since #twins gets you MLB results, I humbly submit a new option, #tph (for Twin Parenthood). It’s short — so it won’t take up too much of your 140 characters. And, it represents the connection many of us want to make — a connection about parenting twins.
I don’t want to “own” the hashtag. There’s no such thing. I just want to connect with other parents of twins ABOUT twin parenthood. So, let’s give it a go. What do ya say?
Many new parents having twins, triplets or more wonder and worry if they should hire someone to help care for their twins in the first several weeks or months. Based on my own experience and the results of several surveys conducted by TwinParenthood.com, the resounding answer is YES.
Yes! If you can easily afford to hire help for the first several weeks, you will not regret doing so
Yes! If you can’t easily afford to hire help, but can scrape together money to hire help, you will not regret doing so
Still, many twin parents will tell you that hiring someone to help you with your twin infants’ care is not strictly necessary — especially if you have volunteer help.
Volunteer help can come in many forms. It may be family that come to stay with you, or it may be a church or neighborhood community that rallies to your aid. Our previous article, Twin Baby Shower Gifts that Provide Real Help for Mom, gives some great advice about how to incorporate volunteer signups into your twin baby shower.
But, not everyone has a support network to step in. So, hiring help makes sense. Once you have decided to hire help, the next question quickly arises.
Should we hire help to care for our twins during the day or night?
Day: Typically you’ll get more for your dollar during the day if you hire someone for daytime help with your twins because you can hire someone that is willing to do more than strictly baby care (fix lunch, do dishes or wash bottles, for example). And, daytime help is typically less expensive than night help.
Night: Getting at least one 4 hour uninterrupted sleep stretch can make a huge difference in your physical and mental well being. If you don’t have at least 3 caregivers in your rotation, you will have difficulty being able to achieve at least one 4 hour stretch of uninterrupted sleep. If you are not able to schedule this in without paid assistance, then you should hire night help.
What type of help should we hire?
The type of help you will need depends a lot upon your particular situation, your financial reserves, and how much volunteer help you will be receiving. If money is unlimited, you can hire several types of help to cover all the bases: a post-partum doula for right after the babies are born, a night-nanny for the first 3 – 4 months, a day time nanny and a housekeeper. Unfortunately, the reality is that most of us can’t afford all of that.
Regardless of what type of help you decide on, you should interview your candidates to ensure they have experience with newborns. Experience with twins is nice, but not strictly necessary.
Doula: A post-partum doula has special expertise with newborns and mother care. A doula is usually more expensive than other types of care. Doulas are often available for over-night care.
Nanny: A nanny may live in or out, but typically a nanny works only for you – in your home. A nanny is usually considered an employee of the household (and thus, you will usually need to pay vacation and holidays, and consider the tax implications). Nannies responsibilities often include additional tasks such as laundry, dishes, and other light housework. Be sure this is discussed prior to hiring your twins’ nanny.
Night-Nanny: A night nanny is a nanny that works at night. Often they try to rest when the babies are sleeping, but may do some household tasks such as emptying the dishwasher or folding laundry – again, be sure to negotiate this prior to hiring.
Au Pair: An au pair is a foreign national on a work visa for a 1 year term. They live in your home and are paid a small salary, room & board, and travel & insurance expenses. Typically, they are required to take some kind of coursework (which you will need to make accommodations for in their schedule). Keep in mind that an Au Pair is not a 24 hour caregiver although they live in your home.
Daycare Providers: This is usually in someone else’s home or facility and your babies will not be the only ones receiving care. Daycare providers must be licensed.
Baby Sitter: Not always, but often a baby sitter is used on an irregular, as needed basis. Baby sitters also do not usually perform extra tasks such as light housework. The term “baby sitter” is often used as an over-arching word to describe anyone who provides child care.
Mother’s Helper: Typically the least expensive of all options. A mother’s helper can be a high school student that comes over after school to help with housework and baby care. Usually a mother’s helper does not take on full responsibility for caring for the babies – but assists with mother present.
Housekeeper: One option not often considered is to hire a housekeeper who will take care of the house, the dishes, the bottles, the pump, cleaning the bathrooms – all of the things that you will not have the energy to do. It is easy to become resentful of your twins’ caregiver who is spending sweet cuddle time with your babies while you are off doing household chores. Wouldn’t you rather pay someone to do the things you don’t want to do, while you dedicate your time to your twinfants?
All of the options available for the early weeks of care with your twinfants often seem overwhelming. But, don’t be tempted to put it off, to “wait and see” what you’ll need. To be on the safe side, you’ll want to plan, interview, and hire your caregiver before reaching your 35th week. If you are very unsure and expense is an issue, start with hiring a part-time housekeeper or mother’s helper.
All parents of twins and multiples know the standard set of questions that we get asked over and over. One of the old standards is, “Are you done now?”
Many parents of twins answer the same way. I think we’re done, but wouldn’t mind having another — while inwardly the fear is lurking. If we tried to have another, would we have multiples again? How would we survive?
This lackadaisical outlook is what led us to become pregnant the second time around. Normally, I would say that having a child is a serious matter and should only be undertaken with deliberate intent. And yet, we all know someone who got pregnant without the intent to do so. That would be me.
We made the assumption, because we had a significant amount of help and it took us 6 years to get pregnant, that we were “safe” from getting pregnant! A small part of me said to myself that if it did happen it would be great anyway. Well, it did happen, and in a big way. And yes, it was great anyway.
Over the years, there are so many stories I’ve heard about how this happened to someone they know. The biggest story I’ve been told so far goes like this:
A friend of my mother-in-law said she knew a family that adopted twins. A couple of years later the adoption agency contacted them with another set of twins that needed placement. Would they consider? After thinking long and hard they agreed. Shortly after the arrival of the 2nd set of twins, the woman became pregnant with triplets!
Life with two sets of twins was extremely hard in the first few years. It is almost like labor — you know how that is… you know it was painful but you really don’t remember the pain. You know it was difficult, but it is somewhat of a blur. We know there are many things we missed when the babies were young. We were just in the trenches — living hour to hour, minute to minute.
Bottom line is this… do be deliberate about having children. Do plan ahead. And, even if you do (plan ahead), God can throw you a curve. So remember to just go with the flow — and you will come out the other side. Things do get easier. It’s all relative. Having one baby is tough, having multiples is tough, and having multiple multiples is tough. But, what a blessing.
As parents of twins, one of the common questions we get asked over and over again is, “Which twin was born first?”. I’ve blogged about this subject before (TwinParenthood: Which twin was born first?) — expressing my opinion that it is not necessarily a good thing to reveal birth order of twins.
Today, I came across this story from CNN about twins that were born 63 days apart. Yes, 63 days! That puts a whole new spin on the question “Which twin was born first?” — doesn’t it?
The thing I find most encouraging about this story, is the fact that the twin boys are now, a few years after their separate births, almost evenly matched. In fact, Adam, the extreme preemie, is now bigger than his brother. I think that piece of news is highly encouraging for parents of preemies everywhere. Adam is still a bit behind developmentally, as can be expected with preemies. Of course, it is also so encouraging to see medicine progressing to the point that a twin can be delivered so far ahead of the other twin. Go Doctors!
Did you have preemie twins? How are they doing now?
